paradise at your feet mom
Under the soles of feet Mother - From Abu Hurairah ra, he tells, one day there was a man came to the Prophet Muhammad SAW as he asked: "O Messenger of Allah, who is most entitled to treat me well?" The Prophet replied: 'Your mother! " The man asked again: "Then who?" "Your mother!" He replied. "Who else, O Messenger of Allah?" asked the man. Beliaupun replied "Your mother!" Furthermore, the man asked again: "Then who?" Teenager replied: "Your father." (Agreed alaih).
The above hadith tells us to always do good on relatives, especially the mother and father. Didahulukannya mother because she was pregnant, nursing, educational and other heavy duty. "And we are commanded to man (to do good) to his parents. His mother had conceived him in a weakened state that increase steadily, and weaned after two years. Grateful to Me and to your parents. Unto I your return (Surah Luqman : 14). Due to its weight assignment parent, then the child is required to treat them well, and even argue with the words "Ah" was not allowed.
Sacrifice a mother can not be measured by material. When we give birth, she sacrificed blood and struggling between life and death, there is a saying that states even if the critical moment we give birth, the mother was asked to choose between her life with her son's life, then a mother will choose to save her from her own life. He was willing menaggung pain while breastfeeding her child with sincerity. He further nurturing and educating us into adulthood. In the month of Ramadan, for us who are still living with Mom, sincerity and kindness are felt. While we were still asleep in bed, she had to prepare food for our last meal, we relaxed afternoon when he was preparing to break the fast. Likewise a father, for the sake of the future of his children, he tried to support his family as well as possible with maximum effort and resources. Despite all that the duty of parents, we must respect them as well as possible. Prophet once asked his companions: "Shall I tell the greatest sin among the great sins?" The friend replied: "How, O Messenger of Allah!" He said: "Shirk to Allah, disobedience to parents". In our society known adage Ridha Ridha Allah depends on the parents. Even better prioritize the needs of mothers praying sunnah. So normal that "heaven is under mother's feet" because of disobedience to parents is the greatest sin after polytheism, which would certainly deter the perpetrators go to heaven.
"Paradise under the heel of the mother" Is it just means that if a child wants to go to heaven to do good on the father and mother?. No!, The figure of a mother also attached a heavy responsibility. If we interpret freely, "paradise under the mother's feet" can also mean that the future of a child in the afterlife depends on the mother, as an educator, mother as a role model for their children everyday, so a mother is very role in ushering them into heaven. So why is "paradise under the feet mom" instead of your palm on the head of the mother or the mother? Implicitly mean leg action and behavior (morality). That is, the morality of a mother greatly affect a child's morality and morality is what will determine the depanya in the world and in the hereafter. Naturally SAW Rasulullahh message to all parents: "No one planted by parents to their children better than noble morality". The first environment that is important to maintain the existence of the family as a child is the most dominant institution in absolute terms, then both parents with properties more specific. In older people, especially in a mother myself inherent obligation to actively educate their children. Children have spent nine months in the mother's abdomen, obtaining food from the body, soul and blood mother, then the mother as the party closest to the child should not miss the daily interactions with the child in an educational context.
Parents should teach you how to know and love God, worship teach and inculcate noble morality. Because "true every baby born in the state of nature, both his parents were scored boy being Jewish, Christian, or a Zoroastrian" (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim). In terms of the establishment of morality, principles and moral reasoning must be based on the Islamic faith. That is why mothers should try to strengthen the moral construction, faith, and purity in youth so deliver them happy in this world and the hereafter. Prophet Muhammad once said: "And she was the leader of the family home of her husband and children, and will be held accountable about them" (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim).
Cahyadi Takariawan in his book "To Love Adorn Household We" give reflection and evaluation materials to us as parents in educating children. Do we have to educate children in the womb? Do we have let out phrase of unity when our child was born? Are we taking the time to educate their routine? Have we provide a positive example to them, or just let them make television as a role model? Do we have instilled the value of faith since they were little? Have we taught them to read the Quran properly? We are sure that they have been able to run the prayers perfectly? Do we have selected the best school for their future in this world and the hereafter? Do we have to give them role models for reading books of science and technology? Do we have to educate them to love Allah and His Messenger more than anything else?
Once the heavy duty of parents, especially mothers in educating children. So needed all the potential goodness in the mother, required knowledge and practical knowledge of it. Mother, father, as well, need to know the basic principles of education, whether they are fundamental in Islamic Law and general science continues to evolve. May we all be parents who become role models for the next generation of Muslims. "Take care of yourselves and your families from the Fire whose fuel men and stones" (Surah At-Tahrim: 6) "paradise under the mother's feet." In the capital itself is a great responsibility to deliver her to heaven by giving the best education. Mother is a role model, she is a perfect example in morality and action. Happiness and misery of children both in this world and the next is influenced by a mother figure. May God give bountifully rewarded the sincerity of a mother who has conceived, given birth, breastfeeding, and educate their children. Wallahu a'alm bisshawab.