Minggu, 09 Desember 2012

The Tragic Story of Stepchildren


Joy and laughter, as seen in an elementary school classroom, in one corner of this Banjarmasin city, early last month, had been disturbed. Alentina Stefani, who was only 8 years old, one of the students in the class are known to have bruises on his face. Concerned about the health condition of the child, Elizabeth, Fani homeroom, immediately called him.
Finding such a black eye and bruises surprising, Elizabeth decided to report it to the principal. After first telling of this event, the family Fani, homeroom was proceeded to the police.
Feelings of anger and pity for the suffering of Fani, mixed together inside Elizabeth. Bruises and bruises on the body Fani, was not the first time he saw. Arriving in Banjarmasin Mapolsekta North newfound certainty that suffered bruising and hematoma Fani, was due to blow by his stepmother.
Stealing money. Allegations that causes the face and all over her tiny body Fani, decorated by a blue bruises and bruises, marks his body had received blunt force blows are insistent - repeatedly.
While her stepmother, Lina, who languished in prison Poltabes Banjarmasin, admitted beating was caused by Fani delinquency. Fani often made out of control, and trigger he hit his stepson.
Unfortunately for small Fani, what happened to him, often unknown father, Augustine Sipahelut. Augustine who is a sailor, spent more time at sea. On the day of the persecution of Fani, Augustine who was at sea, just got a call from his wife.
Since the burst with rage, Augustine decided to go home. What a surprise to his father, found the whole body in a state Fani bruised and discolored. The grief of the father may not be pictured. Her son lived miserably persecuted by people who expected it to protect it. His second wife Lina.
Augustine, the father of the victim, do not trust, Fani who were aged eight years it has been able to steal money, and take action his second wife, and deserve to be prosecuted over the law.
Unnoticed by his father, since the presence of her stepmother, the house was no longer a comfortable place for Fani. I do not know why the stepmother often feel lost money. When this happens, the small Fani who became an outlet resentment of the mother. Convinced Fani took money without permission, Lina suspects grew upset because Fran did not want to confess. Punishment became Fani meal.
Often accused of stealing, followed by a variety of penalties, make small Fani became very quiet. What's more, the suspect Lina, who is also the victim's stepmother, is also often provide job washing clothes, or dishes and glasses to Fani.
One night in January, seems to be a culmination of all the violence, the accused Lina against Fani small. Suspect Lina again - again feeling lost money amounting to one thousand dollars, which he kept in a book.
Having asked his son, and the son said they did not know the suspect spill all charges against Fani. I do not know what makes Lina so sure, that Fani who had been presumptuous to take his money.
Fani who do not feel taking money, the fear denies allegations stepmother. But her mother's dark eyes, immediately took the comb and swung to the Fani body. Like crazy, head Fani dihantamkan next to the wall.
Not satisfied until there, Lina suspects then took a broom, broom handle and slammed his hand to the body Fani. Fani the fear and pain, just crying and expect the mother to immediately stop brutal.
When the action finally stopped the mother, Fani could only cry. Shared sorrow and pain all over its body, small Fani-fell asleep. After receiving a call about the incident, Agus only be stunned and disappointed, knowing her baby had suffered persecution.
Augustine did not believe his son to dare to steal money. Especially after the neighbors, and teachers - teachers in the school Fani, conveying information different from his wife Lina recognition.
Fani suffering in the grip length stepmother, not separated from the victim's father own inadvertence. Augustine, considered not responsive will the situation and her son experienced any he went to sea. Since then the police have been determined to investigate this case thoroughly.
Citizens Housing Complex Herlina, North Banjarmasin, where couples Augustine and Lina suspects rented a house, are not too familiar with this couple. Because the couple had recently rented house they occupy.
Despite the neighbors, especially those who live near the victim's rented house, claims often heard screams from inside the house. But they do not know for sure what really happened.
Fani, according to the narrative Lina is a bad boy, and often out of the house without permission. But according to the neighbors, the boy was almost never leave the house, or hanging out with his peers.
Persecution against Fani, could not help feeling disturbed residents, as long as this is not unheard of violence in their area, let alone a child. Pressure and flogging received Fani, also was known from Fani posts made in his book les.
As he talked, a small Fani has now recovered from the bruised and he suffered bruises, shows where he stands convicted, by lifting one leg and holding the ear. Besides Fani also show where he often told to wash clothes, by her stepmother.
Fani also indicate where that will not be forgotten, a room where he last abused by her stepmother. Thanks to report educators in schools, violence received Fani been finally revealed and stopped. The actors all, is none other than the victim's stepmother, had to deal with the law.
Although residents seemed sorry for punishment to be dealt with Lina suspects, the police will still trap the suspect according to his deeds. Child abuse, as happened to Fran, maybe the phenomenon we often see everyday.
Quite often parents bringing up their children with violence. Whereas excessive force in educating children, is tantamount to inculcate the culture of violence against the child.
STORY OF THE STRUGGLE OF A MOTHER
This story is a real story of a very poor family, who had a son. His father had passed away, there lived the mother and son to support each other. His mother struggled to raise her son alone, and while it does not yet have electricity hometown. While reading the book, the boy lit the oil lamp, while his mother lovingly sewed clothes for the child.


Upon entering the fall, the child enters school atas.Tetapi it's when her mother suffered a severe rheumatic disease that can no longer work disawah. At that time each month students are required to carry thirty pounds of rice to be brought kekantin school. The children understand that ibuya could not give thirty pounds of rice. And then he said to his mother:
"Ma, I want to quit school and help mommy work disawah".


His mother stroked his head and said: "You have such intentions mama is happy but you have to stay in school. Do not worry, if the mother had given birth to you, surely you can care for and maintain. Quickly go to school later registered rice to be brought there mama ".


Because the child does not want to insist on registering to school, her mother slapped the child. And this is the first time the boy was beaten by his mother. The kids ended up going to school too. The mother continued to think and reflect on herself as she saw her shadow go away.


Before long, the limping and breathing haste mother came kekantin school and dropped a bag of rice from his shoulders. Supervisors are responsible for weighing the rice and opened the bag and took a handful of rice and then weigh them and said:


"All of you parents always like to take a small profit, you see, here is the content mix of rice and grain. So you think this my canteen shelter mix rice".
The mother was too embarrassed and repeatedly apologized to the mother monitors.


Early next month the mother carrying a bag of rice and into the cafeteria. Mother watchdog usually take a bag of rice from the bag and see. Still with a wrinkled brow and said:


"Still with the same rice". Supervisors thought that too, if he has not been told yesterday by my mother and then said: "No matter whatever Mother rice we will give thanks but its kind to be separated should not be mixed together, if not then the cooked rice can not be cooked perfectly. Then if so again, then I can not accept it ".


The mother was a little scared and said: "Mother watchdog, rice at home we are all like this so how?"


Watchdog that did not want to know and said: "I have a number of acres of land that can grow many different types of rice?"


Accepting such a question is ultimately the mother did not dare say anything else.


Early in the third, the mother came back to school. The inspectors returned furious with harsh words and said: "You as a mom why so stubborn, why still bring the same rice. Takeout only berasmu it!".


With tears in his eyes the mother was kneeling in front of the supervisor and said: "Excuse me ma'am, I can actually rice from begging".


After hearing the words of the mother, the supervisor was shocked and could not say anything more. The mother was eventually seated on the floor, rolled up his pants and showed his leg that has been hardened and swollen. The mother was wiping away tears and said: "I suffer from arthritis last stage, even walking was difficult, especially for agriculture. Fully understand my condition and my son would quit school to help work disawah. But I forbid him to go to school and again." During this time he did not tell his relatives there next kampong. The more fear of hurting his pride.


Every day early in the morning with empty pockets and a cane to go kekampung door to beg. Until it got dark it slowly back kekampung own. Until the beginning of the month all the collected rice delivered to school.


By the time his mother told him, tears unconsciously Trustees it started to flow, then raise capital from the floor and said: "Mom I will now report to the principal, so that could be a donation to the family's mother."


The mother hastily refused and said: "Do not, if my son knew his mother went begging for their children's school, then it will destroy him., And it would interfere with school. I was deeply touched by the kindness of mother supervisors, but please mom can keep a secret this. "


Finally, this problem is also known by the principal. Secretly principal waives school fees and living expenses during the three-year child. After Three years later, the child's entry into college graduation qing hua with 627 point value. Day of farewell, principals deliberately invited the mother of the child is seated on the main seating. This mother felt strange, so many students who get high scores, but why only mothers are invited. Even stranger still there are three bags of rice.


The school superintendent finally stepped forward and told the story of his mother's rice begging for her child to school. Principals also shows three bags of rice with deep emotion and said:


"This is the mother in the story before." And let the mother is incredible to rise above the pulpit.


Children of mothers with hesitation look back and see the teacher led her mother walked up the pulpit. The mother and the child shall at each other. The views were warm and gentle mama fixed on his son. Finally, the children were hugging and embracing her tightly and said, "Oh mom ......"
The story of the Prophet 25


Prophets and Apostles are men in charge option gives guidance to people about the oneness of Allah SWT and nurture them to carry out his teaching. Their characteristics set forth in the Qur'an,

"... Are the people who deliver the treatises of God. They feared him and those not afraid of a (any) besides Allah. Allah suffices as a maker of reckoning." (Q.S. Al Ahzab: 39).

The difference between the Prophet and Apostle was: a prophet receives revelation from God to himself, while the apostle received revelation from Allah SWT to be delivered to all people. The Prophets and Messengers have 4 compulsory and 4 nature nature is impossible, and the nature allowed but not required, namely:

1.Shiddiq (right), it is impossible Kizib (lie).

2.Amanah (trustworthy), impossibly treacherous (cheating).

3.Tabliqh (Delivering revelation to his people), Odds kitman (hide Revelation).

4.Fathonah (clever / smart), Odds Jahlun (Stupid).

5.Bersifat are allowed but not required Aradhul Basyariyah (as human nature).


In this world have many prophets and messengers had been lowered, but that must be known by Muslims are as much as 25 prophets and messengers, namely:

Prophet Adam

Prophet Idris as

Noah's

Prophet Huud as

Prophet Salih as

Prophet Ibrahim

Prophet Ismail as

Prophet Lut as

Prophet Ishaq as

Prophet Ya'qub as

Prophet Yusuf as

Prophet Shoaib as

Prophet Ayyub as

Prophet Dzulkifli as

Prophet Musa

Prophet Harun as

Prophet David as

Prophet Sulayman

Elijah as

Prophet Elisha as

Prophet Jonah as

Prophet Zakariya as

Prophet Yahya as

Prophet Isa

Prophet Muhammad
HOLIDAY EXPERIENCE
Beach, that's the right word for my vacation this time. Not until a month back from the end of the tile, I went back to the beach but this time Sawarna beach (in the Bayah - offerings). This tour is to fill the year-end holidays (tomorrow go to Pangandaran beach again .. crazy .. again .. laughing) and it happened to fit his time with the New Year's Eve December 31 to January 1 You could say this time me and my friends ngebolang, because I have not been here, do not know the way, do not know hardship track, tour rates and so forth.Armed with info from google, courage, and the map we set (all 6 people: lia, vera, howdah, kak rina, kiwan and I) using APV arena. Because not know the road and coincides with the celebration of the new year, rather than stuck in traffic we decided to leave at 2 nights. On a map, the path through the port nearest the queen, if I've ever finished here at sunrise will target there, rest and breakfast at the port in the port ratu.Sesampainya Queen, I was immediately taken aback. Uh, by Jove So many people. All the people on here seem to sigh. After breakfast, the photos and continue to break our journey scenary. Armed with maps and Track memory of the unknown I do drive pretty excited, it turns out my hunch was right. The road was deserted and extreme, derivatives and sharp incline. But the region through which the very beautiful because it is right on top of the highest peak.The road from the port to Sawarna queen is quite smooth and nice, so despite his extreme tracks can still be passed safely. Perjalannnya benar2 down along the side of the road from the beach so we could see the vast expanse of beach drooling. Arriving in the area BAYAH, fork into my Sawarna was relieved .. due to the beach would have derived all (in my pikirian) turned the guns also in more extreme and ugly, a lot of gravel roads here so it must be careful whew.But really, it's difficult path to heaven but heaven was indeed beautiful. Sacrifice paid along the way. Arriving at Sawarna I was amazed at his beach big grin /. still clean and unspoiled. And a lot of objects in this region, there are two caves but this one haunted his intention would be lost there. and 4 distinct beach entrance to the beach area we have to pass the first suspension bridge .. exclaimed, bridge bergoyang2 but also long long headache HypnotizedIf this path is through further, but his path just as extreme ga queen harbor line. We chose this route because passing can be estimated by 1 January 2012 (the port queen, sukabumi, cianjur, cipatat and Padalarang) definitely solid. If this route traffic through less and no highways to bandung.big grinFor the traveler who is going to this place, my suggestion via the port in addition to the queen closer, way nicer / smoother and try not to use a sedan because later would often slip and stuck (we use 2 times the tire skid APV). When it comes to money, think wrote it costs, because its object is expensive ga wrote just parking (another story if you want to rent the inn).
Island Princess - Who stole.It's another story about Komodo Island Princess. But it is not I who watched, is the story of one employee Island Princess. Here's the story:Once upon a time there was a pair of foreign tourists are already somewhat advanced in years to stay in one of the cottages on the Island Princess. Early on the first page day stay he pesansarapan. Orders are toast and as usual features butter / butter, jam and cheese. Drink coffee. Room Service officers drove to the cottage and asked for signatures on our bill. The orders were in place on the patio table. Early in the morning drinking coffee and eating toast with a sunny view of the beach atmosphere in a beautiful island, accompanied by his faithful wife accompany almost half his life, so delicious life.After enjoying the morning, and then they came into the room. Somehow had just eaten a piece of bread and a cup of coffee just istrinyapun. The rest are not brought inside. About an hour later the husband out of the room to eat leftover bread. But he saw where the bread plate was empty. He thinks there are people who take the bread. He felt disappointed and annoyed. Period of bread there are taking. He's prejudiced to employees cottage.
The next day for breakfast she ordered another coffee and toast. As with yesterday's bread is only eaten a piece and then left into the room. He was intrigued by what happened yesterday. Briefly while he peered into the patio. Apparently he wanted to catch the thief bread. But already many times peering into the patio, the bread was still there.
After some time he finally peeking lizard terkaget surprised anyone that goes to the terrace. Deliberately he did not repel the lizards, lizards observed just keep it. With that lizard slowly toward the table where the bread is placed. Then climb the table and devour toast. Apparently Komodo Island Princess've known albino why breakfast was searching for bread. With the Caucasians amazed watching the scene. He was conscious and felt guilty about having bad thoughts that are taking the bread is employee cottage.
The next day for breakfast she ordered again for 3 servings of bread, a portion will be given to the lizards. This time the bread is placed in front of the stairs from the cottages, ditangga piece, and a piece diteras holding. He waited lizards are fond of bread. After a long wait finally seems remotely monitor lizards headed to cottagenya. In the waiting area and patiently observe lizards. Slowly the lizard approached the stairs. Met bread pertrama then eaten. Proceed up the stairs and the bread was eaten by the second. Want to enter the terrace she hesitated because the Bule. Because of its silent Bule finally inching forward toward bread lizard was third. After the close, with his long tongue bread took third. After the third bread into the belly of the lizard's memndangi Bule. Then Bule showed she had a bakery there, and held up towards lizards. Bule lizard looked at going forward but fear."...... Come, come ......" said the albino. Biawaknya not know what the English language is not.The lizard remained silent as he blinked his eyes tight."Come on ... baby .....".With hesitation as he approached also lizard sticking out their tongue. Finally, after close to hand the bread Bule annexed to the fourth. Caucasians are very excited to give wild lizards eat out of his hand. His wife, who had been peering out of the door also feel surprise for the actions of her husband. He worried lizards will bite his hand. Having no bread he gave it the right way slowly turning slowly toward the bush.
So much Bule, when direstoran lunch this morning to tell employees cottage. The next day the ceremony repeated feeding lizards. That was done until the last day stay at the Island Princess. Before you check out her front office told the officer that he'll be next year's holiday to the Island Princess again. He will meet his favorite lizard and will feed out of his hand.
Well animals repulses most people could make tourists want to come back to visit the homeland. How we are given reason and intellect? Can both be at home while visiting our country and can make the tourists to come back here?. Should be.
Established history PinrangThe origin of the name Pinrang
There are several versions of the origin of the name Pinrang Pinrang developed in the community itself.
The first version of the call that comes from Bugis Pinrang the word "benrang" which means "water pool" can also mean "swamp". This is caused by the early opening of the exact area Pinrang currently Pinrang downtown district is still a low area that is often flooded and marshy.
The second version says that it is caused by the one time King Sawitto named La Dorommeng La Paleteange, free of exile from the kingdom of Gowa the help Baso White Panca Enrekang and assisted the brave troops of Kampung Kaluppini Enrekang. The arrival was welcomed by his people, but they were amazed because the king's face changed and they said "Pinra bawangngi tappana puatta pole Gowa", which means changing it faces from Gowa Our Master. Then after that people started calling the area as a means Pinra changed, the future of local communities transform into Pinrang mention.
Another source said the former settlement of Pinrang swamps inundated always makes people move constantly looking for residential areas that are free standing water, moving or changing settlements in the Bugis language called "PINRA-PINRA ONROANG". Once people find a good settlement, the place was given the name: PINRA-PINRA.
Of the two different histories was born the same term, namely "PINRA", then said it was in development is influenced by intonation and dialect Bugis to become Pinrang currently enshrined into the name of Pinrang.Colonial periodA teacher and two girls from the aristocratic Basseang, Lembang district, Pinrang (1935)
Embryo Pinrang from Onder Afdeling Pinrang under section Pare-Pare, which is a combination of the four kingdoms that became self bestuur or autonomous, ie pads, BATULAPPA, and Suppa SAWITTO previously was a member of the royal confederation Massenrengpulu (Kassa and Batulappa ) and Ajatappareng (Suppa and Sawitto). This is part of the colonial pitting to break the unity in South Sulawesi. Election Pinrang name as the name of the area because the area is a gathering place for the fourth Pinrang last king and at the same establishment where kantoor onder afdelingeen (Resident Office). Furthermore Onder Afdeling Pinrang at the time of the Japanese occupation to Bunken Kanrikan Pinrang and at the time of independence became Pinrang.
As we know that when the Japanese invaded in Pinrang around the year 1943, the colonial legacy system of government with a complete structure consisting of 4 (four) autonomous, each unoccupied Sawitto, Swapraja Stone Lappa, Swapraja Kassa and Autonomous Suppa. When Pinrang be Onder Afdeling under section Parepare, while Parepare section is one of the seven department that is in the province of Sulawesi.Independence
With the enactment of Government Regulation No. 34/1952 on regional changes in South Sulawesi, the division of territory into autonomous regions. Consideration of the enactment of this decree is to fulfill the will of the people and to improve the composition and governance. Swantantra area formed section is the same as the area specified in the decision of the Governor of the great East (Grote Goste) dated 24 June 1940 No. 21, was amended by the Decree of the Governor of Sulawesi number 618/1951. Change is the department became autonomous regions and Onder Afdeling be kewedaan. With these changes the Onder Afdeling Pinrang turned into kewedanaan Pinrang charge of four self-government and a few districts. With the state government so it is always ups and downs in the middle of the ebb and flow of state government. Efforts to improve the structure and governance on the one hand, in addition to fulfilling happiness and wishes of the people. Then, in 1959 came out of Law No 29/1959 in force on the date of July 4, 1959 on the establishment of level II regions in which the practical Sulawesi, including establishing the Regional Level II Pinrang. On January 28, 1960, outgoing Minister of Home Affairs Decree No. UP-7/3/5-392 pointing HA MAKKOELAOE a Level II Regional Head Pinrang, because at that time as an element or organ of the autonomous region have been met. It is then assessed through a symposium conducted by the youth group, especially KPMP Pinrang and forwarded to the Parliament to be poured into a separate PERDA.Regent Pinrang
The following list of figures who have served as regent Pinrang:-I HA MAKKOELAOE 19-2-1960 s / d 11 - 5-1964;-II H.A. GAZALING 11-5-1964 s / d 15 - 7-1965;-III H.A. Dewang 15-7-1965 s / d 24-12-1968;-IV Drs. H.M. David NOMPO 4-12-1968 s / d 20 - 8-1969;-V H.A. PATONANGI 20-8-1969 s / d 28 - 8-1980;-VI Rafiuddin HAMMARUNG, SH. 05-9-1980 s / d 05 - 8-1981;-VII Drs. Natsir ISA 05-8-1981 s / d 21-12-1982;-VII H. MUSA GANI 21-12-1982 s / d 17-9-1986;-IX H.ZAINAL BASRI PALAGUNA 23-9-1986 s / d 22-11-1986;-X U.S. ANWAR 22-11-1986 s / d 22 -11-1991;-XI HA Amirullah FIRDAUS 22-11-1991 s / d 1998;-XII Drs. H.A. Masnavi A.S. 1998 s / d 1999;-XIII Drs. H.A. Nawir, MP 1999-2009 (two terms);-XIV H.A. Aslam Patonangi, SH, M.Si 2009-Until Now.
Adolescent Delinquency Period Piece Story NowThe phenomenon of youth mired in a sexual relationship outside of marriage becomes a serious problem because it involves a future child.
Was striking was the perpetrator of the recognition they do making love (ML) usually in their own homes, when conditions are quiet. The parents, seems to be alert to such modes. It's not easy, and believe it to leave children at home alone without supervision.
Look confession Flowers (not her real name), each doing ML is always at home. "At home I am. Sepi nnggak anyone. Afraid baseball scared the hell that at home," he said.
Even having had a sebadan while there mother at home. "She was at home making love such things fit me (ML). Because, mama I really believe that baseball would macem-macem why should dating at home," said Flower. How sempet sempetnya ML? "At that time, the mama in the room and I was under the ML in the living room," he said lightly.
When pressed what is really just having sex at home not in other places such as hotels, Flower said, "Yes".
"I never check in (hotel), but at home. Friend I average ML also at home. I was always at home," said Flower.
The reason? "I feel safe at home, because it knew who was going through. If I ML in the living room as I separated the living room so baseball caught," he said.
Flowers added, "Almost every her to my house, we definitely ML. Him into my house three kalilah week at home and I'm sure that ML him," said the child, putting the little fat that is more than 10 times dating.
Furthermore, he tells his parents state that enough attention to him. "She was very attentive, just the two of them have to work and a new home at 21.00 pm. I also was told that baseball is so-so but I've kemakan talk my girlfriend used to it and I melted. I also want to own. Instead I ML also often asked because I was hooked times yes, "Flower said bluntly.
According to him, his mother was attentive but not enough time to oversee the relationship with his girlfriend and other friends.
"Mama always told me not to stuff. Doang The limit to the handrails, but I was really up to the ML distance. Mamah know if slapped times. Papah I open baseball. Nothing less than my family. But he admits are always looking for opportunities , "the story of Flower bit naughty.
If you are pregnant? "The fear of hell, but I often ngelakuin baseball ever in anyway, and I was thinking during baseball dikeluarin inside ya okay. 30s I had more ML. I had two weeks late for your period, and then I was crying in tears. I was scared, but eventually became pregnant and ML baseball resumed, "I'm Flower.
He continued, "If I'm going to ask for accountability pregnant, ask for money for an abortion. Half-setengahlah his money for an abortion. Accountable not nyuruh kawinin me, it's baseball. Duit for any abortion."
According to Flowers, abortion became pregnant solution to resolve the problem quickly. "Anyway, if I'm pregnant have an abortion.'s No way dare dilanjutin and say mamah. Was already thought about (abortion) if it happens. Equally friends and even we are again looking for abortion," said Flower.